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  • The Job That Nearly Erase Me

    5-7 min read I didn’t realize I was losing myself. Not at first. It happened slowly even quietly,  in ways that didn’t feel alarming enough to act on. A little more exhaustion each day, a  little less excitement about anything, a numbness that crept in so gradually I almost mistook it for stability.  Everything was…

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    May 24, 2026
  • Just Feeling Out of Sorts

    Just Feeling Out of Sorts

    As a reminder,  I wrote this many years ago, when I was in  a different head space and still had planned to launch this blog. I will continue to honor the words that came out of my mouth as authentically as they are. This space is meant to honor what it truly means to be…

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    March 24, 2026
  • Does PDA Mean Love – Or a Performance? 

    Some of what I’ll be sharing in next few weeks was written during a different season of my life. I’m choosing to honor it, not erase it. Last night, my partner and I invited a newly coupled-up couple over to hang out while we listened to music and had wine. What almost every millennial does…

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    March 18, 2026

I've never been big on making a big speech or anything about myself but I will say as a woman in this day and age , we are expected even required to live some sort of way and be submissive and be this and be that and on top of that still stand for yourself. I'm here to just be authentically be myself and maybe one of you can relate. Welcome to real women.
- Tessa

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