As a reminder, I wrote this many years ago, when I was in a different head space and still had planned to launch this blog. I will continue to honor the words that came out of my mouth as authentically as they are. This space is meant to honor what it truly means to be…
Author: Tessa
Does PDA Mean Love – Or a Performance?
Some of what I’ll be sharing in next few weeks was written during a different season of my life. I’m choosing to honor it, not erase it. Last night, my partner and I invited a newly coupled-up couple over to hang out while we listened to music and had wine. What almost every millennial does…
29 and Tired of Becoming
No one tells you that at 29, the ambiguity of life, relationships, work—just existing—becomes overwhelming. We live in a time where 29 feels like the new 21. We’re not really old—no, not quite. But we’re also not young anymore. And as women, we often struggle more with the constant decision-making that shapes our lives. We…
One Foot In… One Foot Out
Why does it have to be one foot in and one foot out? Is it a survival instinct ingrained in some of us? Does our past really dictate our future that much? I wonder as I sit here, contemplating my own love affair. I love my partner. I believe he’s the one. I’ve never met…

